Man kills serial pedophile
Billi-Jo Smallwood was portrayed as a hero when she rescued two of her children from her burning Fort Campbell, KY home in May, 2007. Now Smallwood has been charged with starting the same fire that killed two of her children, Samuel Fagan, age 9, and Rebekah Smallwood, age 2.
Authorities in Kentucky believe Smallwood "maliciously" set the home she shared with her children and husband ablaze, and that she was trying to destroy the complex she and her husband Wayne Smallwood shared with several other military families.
Billi-Jo Smallwood was badly injured in the fire. Husband Wayne had an ankle injury from jumping out of a second-floor window, but was otherwise okay. Little Nevaeh Smallwood, less than 2 years old at the timeof the fire, also survived.
Billi-Jo received skin-grafts at Vanderbilt University's Medical Center in Nashville, and at the time, friends said she was injured as she tried to save her children. The story was that Billi-Jo was aware something was wrong that night, and she allegedly tried to carry the children who died up to the roof of the building. But Sam was "unconscious" and she couldn't lift him.
Billi-Jo made a MySpace page just to memorialize her son by a previous relationship. The page is private, but this quote was posted beside Sam's photo: "SAM FAGAN....a boy who is truely [sic] missed and remembered by all who ever met him.....WHAT AN AWSOME [sic] KID!"
Billi-Jo's page was private as well. There she wrote, "SPEND EVERY MOMENT AS IT WAS YOUR LAST..." and "PRAY OFTEN......talk to God."
Not long after the fire at Fort Campbell hit the news in May, 2007, someone began a discussion about it on a Topix Message board. Much of the discussion after authorities revealed that the fire was intentionally set seemed to express suspicion that Wayne Smallwood had something to do with the fire.
Several people claiming to be in Smallwood's family eventually posted messages defending him. Then in mid June, 2007, someone with the screen name "rakkasans_frg" posted this message:
"This is Billi-Jo Smallwood the mother who was in the fire.......wife of Wayne Smallwood......I can't say much as it is very difficult to even think about what happened. I will say that my husband did love his children as much as I do. We always will. For those of you who were not there need to get off the internet and have some respect for other people. If you were not there then think of this, do you REALLY know what happened. Stop gossiping and spend some time with your family. Show them how much you love them because I from experience will tell you......you never know when God will take someone away from you. We can't change the past so let's focus on finding who did this and try to make the best of what we have. I beg you to please stop, pray and live right. Would you be sayin g these things if you were on public television where everyone can see you??????? Have some respect if not for us, for our children."
"rakkasans_frg" created a Topix profile. Curiously, the person using that screen name only posted one other time on one other forum: "Fatal Fort Campbell Fire Ruled Arson." There the commenter simply wrote, "God bless the family."
"rakkasans_frg" could have been anyone, but it is worth it to note that Wayne Smallwood was stationed with the 101st Airborne's Third Combat Team, aka the Rakkasans. Was Billi-Jo trying to find a way to monitor the investigation into the fire that killed two of her children? Wouldn't be a big surprise, now would it?
According to the Associated Press, Billi-Jo Smallwood will have a hearing on Friday in a federal court in Gainesville. She will face another arraignment on December 10 in front of a U.S. magistrate judge in Kentucky. [GainesvilleTimes.com]







Sad case. At first, I thought this might be a kind of 'Munchhausen by proxy', where the mother secretly causes injury or sickness to a child in order to be seen as a hero by others for caring for them, but there isn't enough information in the original article to really come to a conclusion.
Posted 11/18/2008 at 09:25:37 PMWow...all the spewing of hate coming from supporters of Billi Jo, toward Wayne, and it turns out that she's the murdering child killer.
Karma's a bitch.
FROM STEVE: Tell me about it. I noticed that too. But you know what? I'm pretty damned sure she posted in that thread under other ids as well. Just a guess, but a grounded one.
Posted 11/18/2008 at 11:32:03 PMWhat happened to innocent before proven guilty? People are so quick to judge. Did you ever think that this was all being turned around on her by him? He is a shred one. He did try to kill her on a separate occasion, which he spent only a year in jail for. Now is just gets out and they arrest her. Something is weird here.
NOTE FROM STEVE: Innocent till proven guilty is a concept that is legally enforced INSIDE A COURT ROOM. Outside the court room, we're free to discuss something like this as we please, so long as we stay in certain boundaries. I watch these comments to make sure no one oversteps those boundaries.
Posted 11/19/2008 at 02:26:09 PMLOL at the "innocent until proven guilty" quote. As if YOU didn't "convict" him as soon as it hit the news??? Weren't you the one saying "the truth will come out?" Be careful what you pray for. He must be pretty powerful to make LE AND the prosecutor charge her instead. (big fat eyeroll)
Posted 11/19/2008 at 07:10:34 PMYep, and I stand by everything I said. The truth will come. There is a long way to go yet.
Posted 11/19/2008 at 08:12:38 PMThe truth will come out, THAT BILLI IS INNOCENT!! The pieces of the puzzle don't fit. Unless you know her don't be too quick to judge, Billi has a commendable character, she is someone we should all thrieve to be, honest, loving, caring, giving..I know this from my own relationship with her. I've known her since I was 12. She did not do this I'm sure of it, it just breaks my heart to know that the real killer is still walking around, hopefully the guilt eats them alive and they he/she comes forward. An innocent person's life is on the line!!
Posted 11/20/2008 at 07:07:45 AMHere is the indictment, by a grand jury.
http://tinyurl.com/5hefg8
I can't count how many times we've seen friends and family of the accused say "they couldn't do it" only to have the defendant be convicted, or even admit guilt. It's very sad that two little kids had to lose their life. I hate to think that a mother is capable of doing this, but we've all seen instances of child abuse and more, from parents. My prayers are with her husband and surviving child.
Posted 11/20/2008 at 08:53:47 PMMy heart certainly DOES NOT go out to Wayne!!!! No real man that LOVES his family would have left his family behind in a burning house.. If he was such a loving husband, loving father why not risk your own life to save your family?? Why would you take the risk of leaving your family behind in such conditions, not knowing if you would be able to get back into them??? The only kind of person that I know would do something is someone that is a COWARD!!!!!!!! Billi Jo did not kill her babies!!! She is the one that stayed behind to try and save her babies... She did not ABANDON her children!!! WAYNE IS THE ONE THAT ABANDONED HIS FAMILY, THE ONE THAT HE CLAIMS HE LOVED SO MCH!!!!!!!!!! BILLI JO IS INNOCENT!!!!!
Posted 11/21/2008 at 03:43:03 PMThis is laughable, I don't personally know them but the indictment isn't a rumor or hear say. She did it. Whether or not she meant for the kids to die, she wanted someone to die. That is in black and white. So the only truth to come out is that the person you thought was a great friend is really a what was the word used Malicious Murderer! Those kids deserved more than that, don't you think?
Posted 11/21/2008 at 06:25:22 PMFrist of all there is nothing to laugh about here. This is tragic for all involved including the guilty party whoever it may be. Second Billi is a great friend always will be, malicious murderer is for the A** that did this to her and her family. Those kids did deserve more than death, I just hope they get the facts straight and go after the REAL killer!!!!! BILLI IS INNOCENT
Posted 11/21/2008 at 07:32:32 PMIt's just that !!! For all of the people that don"t personally know Billi, how can you say that she is guilty of such a horrible crime!! We all know what is in black and white but that is all it is black and white!!! Billi in no way shape or form is capable of hurting anyone. The truth will come out and for all of those that THINK they know the truth will look truly ignorant... How can you blame the one person that risked her own life to save her babies? There is alot more to the story than what is in black and white. It"s not fair to judge anyone especially when you for one DO NOT HAVE ALL THE FACTS 2. WHEN YOU HAVE NO CLUE OF WHO OR WHAT KIND OF PERSON SOMEONE IS!!!! Just a thought all that is put in black and white isn't exactly the TRUTH!!! BILLI IS INNOCENT!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted 11/21/2008 at 09:28:19 PMHow is it that when someone does know another person, they feel as if they have the right to judge that person? Yes we have right of freedom to speech but this is CRAZY! We are not talking about something small and minor here. Billi has lost 2 beautiful babies from this tragedy! Black and White or green and white IF YOU DO NOT KNOW THE WHOLE ENTIRE SITUATION OF WHAT IS GOING AND WHAT HAS HAPPENED then is it fair that you think that you have the right to judge another ??? BILLI IS INNOCENT!!!!!!!!
Posted 11/21/2008 at 09:40:42 PMI didn't really mean laughable, I guess what I mean't was sad. This is sad, the kids are gone and the mother who was supposed to protect them is charged with killing them. Actcident or not they are gone. No matter what anyone thinks about her and her caracter as a person or not she has a long road ahead of her to prove that she is innocent. I just after reading the paperwork feel that she isn't.
Posted 11/21/2008 at 10:22:23 PMSorry if that offends you but... it is what it is.
It's hard to say who did it. Maybe she did, maybe he did. But this whole she-was-monitoring-message-boards-to-be-sneaky thing is a bit crazy. Why would she do that by saying "This is billi jo smallwood, the mother in the fire" Not very stealth or sneaky, is it? The rest of the message was also very generic - anyone could have written it: you don't know what happened, have some respect for the family & dead kids, yada yada yada.
Posted 11/22/2008 at 02:02:05 PMHonestly, PEOPLE need to understand, and I hope the jury will... WHAT it is like to be married to a veteran, probably with PTSD... violent and angry... alcoholic. It makes you turn into someone you are not! She obviously has been living under extreme conditions and thought in her conditioned sick mind, she had no way out. Maybe she did it, maybe not. But she went after her kids, as her husband jumped. Asshole. He doesn't deserve the military uniform he wears. He spent years mentally destroying her... in that state people do not make clear decisions, like doing it when the kids were not there etc... thats if she did it. He could have been the one to threaten it, who knows and it escalated into a huge fight. and when that happens it can get out of control. Bad things come out of bad situations.
Posted 11/22/2008 at 11:33:07 PMConfused do you realize the papers you read only give you some of it, they don't give you all the facts. She does have along road ahead of her but she is innocent and it will be proven. They didn't tell you she was burnt when she walked through fire trying to save her kids did they. Do you realize that anyone could have taken down the fire alarms. Did you ever stop to think that the noise she heard that woke her up may have been the person who actually did it trying to get out. I know more facts but I'm not at liberty to discuss..but seriously wait for all the facts before you convict her. An innocent person's life is on the line here!! Someday, god forbid, you may be in her place and trust me she is one person you WOULD want on your side.
Posted 11/24/2008 at 11:00:31 AMThis very,very true all of the facts will come out and when it is all said and done it WILL SHOW that Billi is INNOCENT!!!! She is not in no way this kind of person, even all of the pure HELL that she has lived through in the last several years..I know how much Billi WANTED and LOVES her kids more than life... This I know for a FACT!!! As we went through our first pregnacy together... Billi and I watched each other's children on several different occassions and my children love her dearly... I TRUST Billi with my children's life as well as my own!!! BILLI S INNOCENT!!!!!!!
GAR, There's nothing wrong with posting these comments, but would you please stop using so many capital letters? On the Internet this is the equivalent of shouting, and people will not read what you say at all if you do it too much. Thanks -- Steve (I run the blog).
Posted 11/24/2008 at 02:52:34 PMSorry Steve....
No problem. It's good for Billi-Jo that friends like you defend her. ~ Steve
Posted 11/24/2008 at 03:22:01 PMI like the fact that you people set back and blame others when you do not know everything. "Knowledge Is Power" we know who you are and the commit you made about innocent before proven guilty - where was that after the fire when all of you blamed Wayne???? "elizabeth" you calling him an asshole. Were you there the night of the fire or the days after? I WAS!!!! and I also visited the house and everything. You people do not know wha tall is going on or what the future will bring. The most important thing is that 2 kids (My neice and nephew) lost their lives and who ever did this needs to pay for it. REGUARDLESS WHO IT IS......
I like to see wha tall of you post knowing you know nothing about the case but you have the freedom to do so.
I have no fake name or AKA... I am Virgil Smallwood
Posted 12/01/2008 at 03:12:38 PMWow... Instead of bashing people for not using their actual names all of this energy should be focused on defending and beleiving in our loved ones..Sam and Rebekah will always be remembered and loved very very much.... I personally speaking as a parent myself, could not even begin to imagine the pain of losing a child... Then to be accused of being the one who took their lives.. I don't think that anyone can completely understand that feeling... I pray everyday that the Truth will be revealed very soon.. Sometimes when we are upset over things happening we tend to say things that should not be said... Btw GAR is my intials, which is all that I use on an everyday basis... God Bless everyone involved....
Posted 12/04/2008 at 10:39:28 AMI heard about this case through a friend and decided to read up on it a little bit and was very shocked to find out it was the same lady I worked with this past summer.She was a very sweet and compassionate woman. I could tell that she loved her children very much. She called to check on her daughter that made it out of the fire every single time she got the chance. She was a very caring woman and I do not believe that she did this to her children.
Posted 12/05/2008 at 09:30:42 AMI am not bashing people for not using their actual names. I just do not think it is right that people set and blame others when they know nothing about what is going on. However taht is their opinion because they are free to do so. And ALL of this engery is focused on Defending and believing in my loved ones adn that is where it was at days after the fire when everyone was blaming WAYNE ALSO... It has not changed and will not change. "THE TRUTH" will be revealed very soon!!!
Posted 12/08/2008 at 11:35:42 AMThat is very wonderful to hear.. As you believe in your sibling and will defend him to the end... As will Billi's family do so for her... It is WONDERFUL that there is such a strong support system on both sides ... No, it is not right for people to blame someone for something that they only know about through the media. But, they (people) do sat back and assume that they know what really happened. But only the ones involved (the ones that were there) and GOD himself know the god honest TRUTH!! GOD BLESS
Posted 12/09/2008 at 03:37:44 PMI have followed this story since I seen the fire with my own eyes. I use to live in that building next to theirs. I remember being woken up by the lights of the cops and all the comotion. I look out my window and cops and fire engines are right outside. I run out the back door (without shoes) to see what's going on and from what I saw and what I've read in the media's story lines don't match.
Posted 12/12/2008 at 10:10:54 PMOne example, a criminal investigator had mentioned in one of the headlines that the smoke alarms had been removed. I was there and I heard the smoke alarms. That was the only unit that had anything that would make the smoke alarms go off. Secondly, my heart goes out to both Wayne and Billi jo. I didn't know them. I heard alot about them but never spoke with them or anything. Third, a headlines goes on to mention that she had suffered burns consistent with someone who started a fire. I clearly remember her on the ground behind her house with her and her husband screaming and crying that their kids were in there. Don't sound like someone who started a fire to me. I've read the headlines and I was there that night and from what I saw and what the media said happened just don't add up. This is exactly why I don't take the media seriously.
I believe in my heart that Billi Jo did NOT commit this horrendous crime! She absolutely loved Sam and Rebekah as well as her surviving child, Nevaeh. It was so apparent in the way she cared for them. Rebekah was a gorgeous little girl - Sam was so handsome. She loved them all so much. I know there are cases where mothers do terrible things to their children. Billi was and is, not like them! Do not believe everything you read in the papers and see on TV. The media always screws things up and twists the facts around. To Virgil: I see some things never change....if someone bashes Wayne you just HAVE to bash them right back, don't you? I also see you still can't spell! And another thing, Virgil - you were not there the night of the fire, so don't try to come across as a first-hand-know-it-all. To Knowledge Is Power: I'm back....and the truth is out there!
Posted 12/18/2008 at 02:20:34 AMLet me start off by saying I apologize I spelled some things wrong – shoot me- well don’t because you might……. I want whom ever did this to payno matter who it is… LET ME say it again….. WHO EVER IT IS!!!!!! They need to pay and burn in HELL for this crime and I hope the right person is caught and prosecuted….. To JSOU – Well you all are on her defending BJ but if it came down to it you all would try and throw Wayne under the bus. I am defending him just as you all are BJ… NO – I was not there the night of the fire but I was the last person that they talked to on the phone and the first family member up there when the call came in that morning. WAYNE’s story has never changed just as some has…. SO I think I know a little more than you do…… “THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT- THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT” or has it already??? If there was so much love and caring and concern then why if the HELL would you let a 2 year old ride around in a booster seat??? We just picked Nevaeh up this week and I had to go and buy a car seat because she had been riding around in a booster seat…. WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND would take a 2yr old on a 6 hour trip in a booster seat??? GAR if I was you I would watch out who watches my kids or at least make sure they take the car seat along with them for “SAFTY” yes “SAFTY”… Oh did I mention I also bought her some clothes because we picked her up in Short sleeves(and that was all that was packed) and the weather here this week is in the 30’s…… OH YEAH only 5 outfits for a whole week for a 2 year old… Come on people???? She is Innocent – You said above the papers give you some of it and NOT all the facts… you said she walked thru fire – why would a person have to do that if the fire is down stairs and everyone is up stairs??? Would you walk thru it?? “OH LET me see how tough I am and if I can’t get burned!!!” BULL FU&*ING SH&T……… ELIZABETH – you said he does not deserve to wear the uniform – that is your right and one for which he signed up to fight for… DID ANY ONE know that where he jumped was a garden hose – if not then the pictures that the ATF will show that…. Also, they do watch this stuff… Let’s see – would you jump to a garden hose or walk thru fire that you did not have to walk thru… enough said…. I guess he set it all up and called the house and made the call that she said was made – OH YEAH the indictment said there was no calls made when she reported there was!!! Shame on me - I forgot…….. GAR, you said above - 2. WHEN YOU HAVE NO CLUE OF WHO OR WHAT KIND OF PERSON SOMEONE IS!!!! NOW isn’t that the truth??? SO I SAY - My heart certainly DOES NOT go out to BJ!!!! Does that sound familiar??? My brother is standing beside her saying she did not do it and he does not believe any of this… That is his right and I have mine just as everyone else does… He does not like it but I can’t help it!!! As for JSOU, GAR, and Knowledge Is Power –You know who I am and I really do not care… However I am not scared shitless and hide behind fake name or initials…
Ohhh Did I fell to mention that when she moved to South GA. That she moved her boyfriend down there with her??? NOW - why would someone have a boyfriend if they are still married and LOVE TEHIR HUSBAND SO MUCH??? AM I wrong for thinking that??? GAR you said - A WAYNE IS THE ONE THAT ABANDONED HIS FAMILY, THE ONE THAT HE CLAIMS HE LOVED SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!! Also, you say Wayne is not a good Father – Well it will come out she had a different biological dad for all 3 of the kids and Nevaeh, and Rebekah had Wayne’s last name because he stepped up to the plate and took care of all 3 kids… Any man can make babies but it take a real man to raise someone else’s babies and provide for them just as Wayne did… He kept clothes, food, roof, insurance for all the kids…. If he is not a real man then where is the other 2 dad’s during this time??? JSOU – is my spelling good this time too you a$$ hole???? PEACE OUT UNTIL NEXT TIOME – JSOU is that spelling good enough for you a&& Hole????
Posted 12/23/2008 at 04:32:56 PMWOW Virgil I can't believe that you think Billi did this. Yes Billi's kids had different father's but for one she was married to Sam's father, she was raped which lead to Rebekah and Nevaeh belongs to Wayne, her current husband. You make it sound like she is a Wh@*e...Second, Billi was burned when she went back into the house to try and save the kids, I would imagine she tried to enter thru the downstairs...DRRRR..And putting down Billi's family for not sending the right clothes, come on that is redicilious. As far as a booster seat, the child is 3 almost 4 (you should know that you are her uncle), A high back booster seat is sufficient for a child her age. If you and your family were so worried about Nevaeh's welfare, why was temporary custody given to billi's brother, by Wayne, when you basically called them UNFIT!?!All the blame and bashing has to stop, it will eventually hurt Nevaeh, if it hasen't already. The fued between families is unnessary, Nevaeh needs the love and support from both families. Billi's family has every right to her as your family does. I don't think everyone realizes the impact this situation is going to have on her. A 3 year old who has lost her brother, sister, and mother. If you love you niece get her counseling she's gonna need it. That's the only thing that is important, not how many outfits, or a car seat that dosen't meet YOUR standards, or material things for that matter. She needs to be in a stable inviroment, not with someone that puts down her mother and her mother's family. Nevaeh needs to make her own opinion of her mother, which she will do when she is old enought to understand!! No matter what that is still her mother, an unconditional love that not even your harsh words can break!!!!
Posted 12/30/2008 at 12:54:40 AMTo WTF: WOW I can't believe that you think WAYNE did this or set her up!!!
I never came out and said that I think she did this like most of you who have came out and said Wayne did and that eh set her up. HELL if he is standing behind her then why would her family still think he did this. Tehy should be praying and thankful he is standing behind her. Most men (or history has shown) that they would leve their wives but he is standing behind her and that is not good enough for them. As for the kids I knew about her first Husband adn did not knowing anything about Rebekah and just tlearnred this on this site by you. NOW I do not think that would be a great place to put this info.. Especially if you are her family.. I looked at Waye as the father of Rebekah and Nevaeh.. Downstairs???? Okay Well I guess we all jus tneed to wait and see.... Yes a Booster seat... OH and she is only 2 and will be 3 in March so I guess you are about a year off..... and YES is A high back booster seat is sufficient for a child her age, but NOT a regular booster!!!!(which is what she had......) Well if it were givign to he brother then why did he not watch her and then her mom had her for the whole time. SO DID HER BROTHER PASS HER OFF????? I TOTALLY AGREE THAT THE BLAME AND BASHINGS NEEDS TO STOP - HOWEVER When her family gets on her and bashes him then I will get on her and speak the truth..... Why is okay for them to do it but not us?????
I do realize the impact it will have on her and is why I already took her to visit some schools and have enrolled her into a good scool that will help her... She will stat the NEW YEAR off right!!! Teh outfits and car seat is not what meets my STANDARDS - it would be what the STATE say the standards does not fit... She is in a stable inviroment and I do not put down her mother.. But you are basically saying that if she was with her family it is okay if they put down her FATHER!!!! "DOUBLE STANDARDS" I also agree with you that Nevaeh needs to make her own opinion of her mother, which she will do when she is old enough to understand!! ON HER OWN ADN NOT WITH ANYONE ELSE IMPUT!!!!!
At least there are a few things we can agree on!!!
Posted 01/01/2009 at 12:26:30 PMWell you know you are really starting to sound a elementary school child... Who cares who you are! It's not about you nor me. As far as who I leave my kids with really is no concern of yours! You keep throwing your name around as if it will make you a bigger man or popular! News flash VIRGIL no one cares !! You are doing nothing but spending your energy jumping down everyones throat about anything! Yes I use my initails and some people use fake names, so freaking what, that makes us cowards becuase we are not on here shouting out who we are! No one is scared of anything especially of someone that gets on here and blabs.. I mean come on you have gotten on here and made this all about you and who you are! And by the way it doesn't matter if BJ had 10 kids by different dads, that is none of your concern and oh yeah apparently your brother didn't mind he is the one that is married to her not you! Apparently YOUR brother must LOVE BJ for who she is and I really don't think that he is seeking your approval!I'm certain that once you read this you will have plenty to blab about then but seriously who freaking cares! If you can't handle people talking and voicing their opinions and it is going to happen rather it's your family or someone else's then maybe you should consider not coming on these sites!And before you misunderstand I am not telling you not come on here, for I do not have the right to say that, it is a FREE site for whoever would like to visit and state how they feel about the situation! Wouldn't you agree??? That's my opinion so there! scared, hiding behind my initials GAR!!!
Posted 01/21/2009 at 12:09:01 AMI have known Billi for awhile. She is nuts. She has some screws loose. If she had been raped why was she living with the man and then come back to him and live with him again and never call the police. She done it!
Posted 01/21/2009 at 12:01:52 PMI have known Billi for awhile. She is nuts. She has some screws loose. If she had been raped why was she living with the man and then come back to him and live with him again and never call the police. She done it!
Posted 01/21/2009 at 12:09:23 PMSarah... You must be another that is talking to be heard... I have known Billi for 15 yrs.. I beleive that Billi was living with her sister not a man! She never said she was raped not by Wayne... You seriously might want to regroup and find out the TRUTH first off..
Posted 01/21/2009 at 01:43:36 PMi never said she was raped by wayne. she said she was raped by rebekah's father. but that is so funny she was living with rebekahs father when it happened. never called the cops and continued to live with him. the relationship finally ended and after rebekah was born she came back down to ga and lived with him again until he paid for her to get her own place. her own mother will still and call rebekahs father and was letting him know where she works thinking he was still interested in her when we all know she is not right in her mind. whatever it is the truth will come out and the police must have enough evidence to hold her and charge her. all i am trying to do is clear rebekahs fathers name.
Posted 01/21/2009 at 02:36:20 PMAre you serious?? You are bringing stuff up from the past that in no way has to do with now! Clear Rebekah's father's name of what?? He is not being accused of murder. No one cares what happened in the past. Rebekah did not even carry his last name.. You may know the father and don't want to see anything happen to him but again this has nothing to do with him. Wayne is the one that Rebekah called Daddy!!! His name has not even been brought up until now! BJ has not lived with that man in several years now..
Posted 01/21/2009 at 08:16:08 PMBut I see her point. It goes to character. If she could lie about something as serious as Rape, why couldn't she lie about other things. I don't know the story but I see her point. Also, remember GAR you are the one who was just spouting off about this being a public forum, so if she wants to bring up what she knows she can. But this is interesting reading if nothing else.
Posted 01/22/2009 at 09:48:19 AMI have set back and just watched all of this and what you all are saying and I LOVE IT.... It is about time that other people is talking about how they feel and actually knows these people beside her family. Which is a fress site to chat on.. GAR - you say what happen in the past has nothing to do with what is going on now - Are you CRAZY???? Do you not think that they are goign to look amny years abck to use at trial and that they have looked in everythign just to bring up charges??? Sounds like GAR is family and Sarah knows them all but not family..
WE all shall see what happen!!!!
Posted 01/23/2009 at 02:14:46 PMHey GAR,
Yes this is a fress site for anyone to post. I actually like it so I will keep looking at it. However I promised Wayne I would nto post anything else on here. I knwo he had asked her mom to Tell her side of the family to respect them adn do the same but I see it is did not!!!! Well I will keep it short and just say "TIME WILL TELL" on everything....
Sounds like Sarah knows some stuff too!!!
oh yeah - I do not want anyone to be scared of me... Not sure where you got that from.
Out of respect for my brother (only) will I let this go!!
Peace out!!!!
Posted 01/23/2009 at 02:28:38 PMJust for the record...I AM NOT FAMILY!! Just a friend!!!
Posted 01/23/2009 at 04:46:02 PMThank You!!
My name is CARIE..this is the only name I use on this site or any other for that matter...I have been blamed for being GAR..GAR, could you please email me (dolphinlover1972@yahoo.com) and tell me who you are? I will keep it too myself. I have a feeling I know who you are but will not post that info on here..Thanks
Posted 01/27/2009 at 08:07:02 AMoh yea and wayne is a odd one for stickin by her too...maybe they belong together.
Posted 01/29/2009 at 10:21:01 PMi am not family...they are all a bunch of quacks if you ask me. it runs in the family
Posted 01/30/2009 at 04:23:21 PMWho is a bunch of "QUACKS" and runs in "WHICH FAMILY"???
Sarah Do you happen to know me or my side of the family?
Posted 02/03/2009 at 10:45:10 PMvirgil...I am talking about billie's family...but your brother has issues to for sticking by her after what she did to those kids.
Posted 02/11/2009 at 11:10:12 AMVirgil,First of all Sam lived with his biological father and stepmother in snellville Ga wayne didn't do shit for him he had no insurance on Sam and did not support him in anyway!!!financially or emotionally so if you wanna talk about Sam in any capacity get it right!!! And I don't know who did such a horrible thing to those children if it was billie jo she has to live the rest of her life with it and Im sure she at some time will wish she was dead if not already, I know sam adored her as he did his father I personally think Wayne flipped out and just jumped to save himself do you really want us to believe he was gonna fight the blaze with a tiny waterhose! what are they about an inch wide all the while leaving the kids alone in a burning building Wayne needs to man up and you just need to shut up!!!!!
Posted 02/13/2009 at 07:18:35 PMWhy is it OK for everyone in BJ's family to get on this site and say all these things about the father but his own family is ridiculed for defending him. I check this site periodically to see if there is any update on this case but I honestly have to say... When did this stop being about a couple of innocent children and start becomimg a forum for two seemingly feuding families? Also, everyone on here is blaming a man that NO ONE in law enforcement has ever accused of commiting this crime. He, as I have read, has never been a suspect. I used to think that no mother would ever put their own children in danager, but as I have seen on the news on countless occasions, especailly now, when people become desparte they will do things that in any other time would not be in there character. I personally don't want to beleive that she did this but the truth is, I read the inditement and have come to the conclution that she propably did. So in the memory of those Inocent Children maybe "everyone" should shut up as the last person posted.~
Posted 02/17/2009 at 03:51:28 PMThank YOU – WHY!!!! You said it all… Ohh and the last person is Billie Jo’s sister!!! Come on Jeanine – Sam only stayed a few months with his dad and step mom and for the most part he lived with his mom and Wayne. I never once said he did not love her or she did not love him – so get that straight…. As for insurance – it will all come out and YES Wayne did carry insurance on him… You might want to look into that more and if not then I am sure it will all come out at trial.. “SO YOU GET IT RIGHT”!!!!!! Well would you not think that a water hose “WATER” would put a fire out? It may not have been much to put it out but it would as hell slowed it down. Especially when he was told to get them a way out and she had the kids… OH – you must not know this… Well THERE IS A LOT that will come out at trial that people do not know…. SOME ARE BEING PLAYED and others know better!!!!!
I like WHY’s comment!!! “Also, everyone on here is blaming a man that NO ONE in law enforcement has ever accused of committing this crime. He, as I have read, has never been a suspect.” As on the other hand it was from almost day one.. I think it took 18 months so they can get all the details and the ducks in a row…. To be honest with you all – I PERSONAALY CAN’T wait until trial….. I know they will try and point fingers at Wayne to clear her but - GOOD LUCK!!!!
And to Sarah – I agree with you that he has issues for sticking with her after doing that to their (everyone get that “THEIR”) family….. I have told him that myself and he does not want to hear it but I feel the way I feel and NO ONE will ever change that… I told him the day they got married that he better not run off and do anything stupid and look what he did…
Hey Becky, Jeanine or whoever – run off and go tell Wayne I wrote this just like you have done before… I really do not care… I told him I would not write anything else and I tried not too but when you all get on here and say what you want then I am going to do the same… We all have freedom of speech!!!! OH YEAH one last thing!!!! Some people are saying that what has been said on here or anything is what is keeping her in jail and not getting a bond – WELL think about it…. It is not what we say – IT IS HER ACTIONS that put her where she is and that is keeping her there…. SO Stop blaming other comments and start blaming her ACTIONS!!!!
FYI - In case any of her family wants to know, Nevaeh is doing great and is happy as can be and is loving day care and has many new friends and the teachers love her so much.
Posted 02/18/2009 at 09:11:19 AMSick just sick, I can't believe grown men and women are on these forums bashing and blaming, especially when they have no idea who anyone is, or of their chararcter and are making assumptions. The ATF and Military have found their suspect. They know a whole lot more than anyone else and I can almost guarantee that there are things that no one knows about in this situation, and will not know until the trial. I have been around the military all my life, they don't tell everything, it's in their nature. You can bet your last dollar that they have no stone unturned or crack unfilled, they have their arsonist. I know a sister of one of the parents, and yes, I have heard things that were very disturbing, none the less, to each and everyone involved you really don't know what happen, only those that were know and GOD himself. For Nevaeh, I hope all is well, and she grows up to be a happy and heathly woman. She deserves to be loved, no matter what has happened and to be reminded of how much her brother and sister loved her.
JMO
I have always heard "The Truth Shall Set You Free", well lets just see ...
Posted 03/06/2009 at 10:18:43 PMI would like to voice my freedom of speech. Yes Wayne is crazy for standing beside her. Yes Nevaeh is growing up like a little girl should . She is happy,healthy,& loved.When she grows up she will have an opinion about her mother & I hope that she can forgive her.(Billi-Jo). I also want to say that she is GUILTY.......
Posted 03/09/2009 at 11:22:28 PMWOW – I am glad to see others on here finally saying some things that are not her family (which I am not – which I am not, she happens to be my brother’s wife)… Cyndi, I am not sure who you are but it sounds like you know someone close to the family or maybe just know them from being on the base. Well Any way – Nevaeh is doing great and we are having her birthday party this weekend. She is so precious and is all happy go lucky. It is just sad that we have to tell her that mom is at work when she ask for her. This is the best thing for her from what the counselor said. My daughter enjoys having her around and treats her like a little sister. And YES – The ATF knows more than what people think they know. You better believe that they turned over every stone and followed every lead and followed people just to find the person responsible.. My feelings have never changed from the minute I arrived up there early that morning. I just try to support my brother but sometimes it is hard to do so…
GIGI – Not sure who you are but sounds like you are close somehow to know Nevaeh is growing up well and happy and provided for. You say Wayne is crazy for standing beside her. I just do not understand why especially after our older brother was murdered by his wife and was never charged and after us going thru that and how upset we all have been knowing she got away with it. However, NO ONE NEVER knows what is going through someone else’s mind… One day he will realize – not sure when but he will.
Until next time – See you all later!!!
Posted 03/11/2009 at 08:45:41 AMHe's crazy for standing by her? Isn't this the same person who was arrested for domestic abuse towards her? You all portray her as some kind of horrible person but what about all of the things that he did to her? She is a wonderful mother and person. You portray Wayne as a loving father and husband. Doesn't he have another son that no one mentions, does he have any rights to him or does he ever see him? Why not? What is the reason that he doesn't have his other son? I am sure that you have a good excuse, and that you will blame that on someone else too. It's what you all do, blame someone else for something that goes on.
Posted 03/11/2009 at 11:09:25 AMYou can sit on here and bash whoever you want, but I just could not sit here and read all of these sick things any longer without saying something myself. I am glad that Nevaeh is happy, she is the one that has lost the most in all of this. She deserves happiness and stability and I hope that is what she has.
HA HA… Is there are issues that are there that Wayne has to deal with and for what is going on with his other son. However, that has nothing to do with this and I know for one as a parent I would not want my child around someone who could/would (or accused) of hurting other kids. Have you sat and thought that that mother does not want her son around Billi-Jo? I know I do not want my child around her… Yeah maybe they all had their faults here which will come out in court but you have to realize that is not what is being talked about here – IT IS THE CRIME COMMITTED…. Yeah they (her attorney’s and her) will throw Wayne under the bus at trial and try and turn it on him and maybe that is when he will wake up and realize what everyone has been trying to tell him.. If not then he has to live with it… “don't you wish you knew” ALL these so called “SICK THINGS” is all about a “SICK PERSON” but, no one wants to wake up and realize that. oh and in MY book (OPINION) so called wonderful mothers do soccer practice, games, bowling, PTO’s etc and not being accused for something this awful… Maybe you want to set and re-evaluate what you call a wonderful mother….
As for Nevaeh – yes she is the one who has lost so much here and she is doing awesome..
Wayne - If you read this or get a phone call that it is on here then all I can say is sorry bro… You know how I feel and I am only myself just as you are. We all have decision and opinions to make. “FREEDOM”
Posted 03/11/2009 at 01:14:07 PMIn the response to Virgil yes,Wayne knows what we all went through when Daryl was Murdered & yes I mean MURDERED..... We all know that she had something to do with it but it was hard to prove.... I just hope that Wayne wakes up & realizes what was going on. My husband is not saying much about the situation.... All he is saying Innocient until proven Guilty. But I cant say that with what JU JU has been through with them....(Wayne &Billi-jo). She is a tough woman...........
Posted 03/12/2009 at 09:28:47 PMVirgil, I know your Sister, and Mom. I grew up in Norfolk, Va. blocks from base, thats why I know alot about the military. Hope that helps.
I am sick of hearing what Wayne has done and what he has done to her, People that is not the issue here, what is the issue: two small children were killed in a fire started by the mother ..(and I say this because she has been charged). I know of Wayne and Billie Jo but what happen before this is irrelevent. Couples have fusses and fights everyday, that is a marriage, mother's just don't start fires and kill their children. (and again I say this because she has been charged)
Maybe I should keep my fingers off of the keys in response to this but it erks me to no end. His family has been through more than enough with her bullshit to ... JMO
Posted 03/14/2009 at 11:15:05 PMWow I am so blown away that people, friends and family of Wayne and Billi Jo have a place to express all of thier feelings. The one thing that needs to be never forgotten about is the children. I knew Smallwood and Billi Jo pretty well and have heard all of the inside gossip. It took so long for charges to be made that it leads me to believe that the investigation was intensively thorough. The Army does'nt like to be wrong or to show any dirt and since this happened on post the Army would only move forward, if it had evidence. Everyone close to this tragedy is still trying to process that Billi Jo could have done this.
Posted 03/19/2009 at 12:49:05 AMHope both these families find peace and the truth comes out.It breaks my heart that the real victems in this story are the children. I will pray for both families.
Posted 08/27/2009 at 03:47:52 PMi know from meeting and getting to know Wayne theres more to this and his wife didnt do it..besides why would she set a fire in plot to kill her husband with her own kids inside? pretty stupid if u ask me
Posted 10/17/2009 at 11:21:27 PMTo Someone Said:
Posted 11/18/2009 at 10:39:04 AMSeems to me that you never met his wife then!!!!
I have not heard about the conclusion as of this posting. It was understandable that everyone had opinions and beliefs about the tragedy. A couple of things I noticed on the posts that were irrelevant about hearing fire alarms, contrary to the investigators discovering the alarms were removed- perhaps the smoke set other alarms off from adjacent/connecting units?? If anyone did use gasoline to start the fire, investigators can learn this immediately. For whatever reason someone started the fire, being it to kill Wayne for insurance, to receive insurance money on house belongings, to protect themselves from any other domestic fights, etc.- none of us know. It is a possibility that maybe one outcome was expected and then the fire engulfed the home and killed those poor kids. Bottom line, still punishable. I tell myself I would die to save my daughter, but none of us have ever felt the panic, surprise, fear, nor pain of a 2000 degree Inferno. Perhaps Wayne couldn't open the bedroom door, perhaps he jumped to find another way in, perhaps he thought using water with a hose could do something, anything to slow the fire till help came. I stand by my friend Wayne and his whole family. I personally would not trust anyone again IF it was determined that they wanted to kill me. I look forward to finding out the trial details. Virg, you know how to get in touch with me. Heartfelt sadness to the poor children, none deserve this.
Posted 01/10/2010 at 01:46:57 PMFirst of all i want t thank Crash for your comment.That was the most indepth thing anyone has said. I will notget caught up in this gosip;but i will say this;I beleive in Billi-Jo's innocence. She is the most caring mother,and honest person i know. Everyone wants to bash her,bash me, blah,blah,blah...Yes you all have your oppions,But only Billi-jo and i was there from start to finish.Yes there was confusion that night,yes there was hysteria,and yes there was an Inferno,AND YES WE LOST OR KIDS.I SAID OUR KIDS,one thing about Billi-jo and myself ...we did not divide the kids into Biolgical groups.It does not freakin matter who there parents were.The kids were loved the same.My son from another,her son from another,they were ours when they was with us.
Posted 02/05/2010 at 03:00:48 AMDid she walk through fire,did she not? Did i jump and leave MY FAMILY,did i not? Let me put this to rest,She saved Nevaeh,She got burned trying to save Sam. When i went down stairs to check on what was happening,after being woke up bye her (yes I was woke up bye Billi-jo),We got sperated in the fire.We exited the house from different rooms...So if she was trying to kill me, why in the hell would she wake me up? And 4 money,if anyone knew Billi-jo,She did not care about money,or having new things.
So please stop Bashing.I know for a fact that she did not do this,just as she knows I did not do this. I bet NOne OF YOU DUmB ASSES KNOWS ABOUT ME TELLING THE ATF WHO I THOUGHT IT WAS,AND WHY I THOUGHT IT,AND THAT I AM PRETTY SURE I NOW WHO DID IT.AND THAT THERE IS STRONG POSSIABLE EVIDENCE POINTING TO THOSE I BELIEVE.BUT THE ATF NEVER INVESTIGATED,NOT EVEN ASK QUESTONS FROM THEM...If you want to BASH Someone,BASH them...
WE miss Sam and Rebekah,very much.And there is an innocent person awaitng trail for somthing she did not do.Billi-jo and i greive evryday.So please for OUR kids sake,let this bitterness of who said what,or who was there,or who knows who, let it go...Some people will think i did it,some will think other-wise,but you all look like a bunch of asses,....
The truth will come out..and i will stand bye Billi-jo side...