Teen strangled, slit 9-year-old's throat
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One post was on Outpersonals.com, a site for "Worldwide gay" personal ads - that post was the source of the screencap above. "sexaddict53885" used the same photo for his comment on an article about an author hooking up with a guy in a bathroom while on a book tour as "sexaddict5385" used for comments on Passion.com.
The same poster left comments on ExtremeRestraints.com, a networking site catering to the bondage community. "sexaddict53885" found this article on etiquette when attending a BDSM party "useful."
"sexaddict53885's" profile on alt.com ("World's Largest BDSM & Alternative Lifestyle Personals" dating site) explained what the young man was into and what he was seeking:
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| From "sexaddict53885's" Alt.com profile |
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The profile owner described himself as a 6'4", blond, blue-eyed caucasian - a description that fits Markoff to a "T". He also said he preferred a sexually "submissive" role. He had been a member of ALT.com since May, 2007.
And sexaddict53885 gave Markoff's exact birthdate - February 12, 1986.
But as you know - if you've been following this most tawdry of recent Craigslist-related criminal cases - Megan McAllister, Phil Markoff's fiancee, is standing by her man. This is a quote from her statement issued April 28, 2009:
What has been portrayed and leaked to the media is not the Philip Markoff that I know. To me and my family, he is a loving and caring person and in the eyes of the law and constitution, he is innocent until proven guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. I just can only hope that the criminal justice system will not be overwhelmed and persuaded by what is being put forth in the media. My fiancé's fate should not rest in the court of public opinion, but rather in a court of law.
It's hard to feel anything but sorry for her.
Links:
* A copy of what may be Markoff's "sexaddict53885" profile on Alt.com.
* Link to an alt.com map pinpointing "sexaddict53885's" location - Boston, MA.
* Page from Gay Dating site showing stats for "sexaddict53885."










I figure, if he tells his own brother to "forget" him, that there is "more coming out" then maybe his fiance should take the same advice.
I do feel sorry for her. Moreso before she gave this latest statement.
Posted 04/28/2009 at 06:09:52 PMSoobs:
In spite of her statement, don't you think there's a reason she has NOT been to see him???
Posted 04/28/2009 at 06:19:18 PMIt seems Philip Markoff was also a member of gay post personals. Here is the link:
http://gayclublist.outpersonals.com/intgroups/mi4898601_39426/acshow_score_summary.html?dcb=gayclublist.outpersonals.com
Posted 04/28/2009 at 08:05:39 PMWow, great work! Can't wait to see what else comes out.
I even learned a few new words today...
Posted 04/28/2009 at 08:34:01 PMI believe she has canceled the wedding so maybe she is over the whole "stand by your man" thing. The band who was to play at their wedding is now available on that day. I'm sure there are many more layers of this guy and more will be revealed.
Posted 04/28/2009 at 10:51:26 PMBetsy:
The news abou cancelling the band came out this past weekend. Her latest statement of support came out Monday. I think the band being cancelled had more to do with the fact that he will still be in jail at that point awaiting trial.
She still appears to be delusional.
Posted 04/29/2009 at 08:00:45 AMBetsy:
The news abou cancelling the band came out this past weekend. Her latest statement of support came out Monday. I think the band being cancelled had more to do with the fact that he will still be in jail at that point awaiting trial.
She still appears to be delusional.
Posted 04/29/2009 at 08:00:50 AMGaaaav, sure, I believe there is a small part of her that knows something about him isn't "right" regardless of her statement. But she didn't HAVE to give that statement, she could have kept quiet. Which is what I would have done.
I also agree that the reason the wedding was cancelled is because he's not getting out of jail anytime soon.
Posted 04/29/2009 at 08:45:18 AMI agree with Soobs: I feel immensely sad for the fiancee. And, I certainly don't think she's "delusional," as much as still processing the deluge of frightening information coming out about the man she loved and lived with. On some level, and at some point or another, we have all given free passes to the people we care about. It just so happens that Markoff's transgressions involved a double life, robbery, murder. The poor girl has got to process all of that--but she's luckily escaped with her life. Give the girl some time to grieve--even if it is for her monster of a boyfriend/fiance. Sounds like she is slowly coming to grips with the truth:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30495298/?GT1=43001 .
Posted 04/30/2009 at 04:00:18 PMPL:
Delusion: a fixed false belief that is resistant to reason or cofrontation with actual fact.
Your comments seem to imply guilt. I think that is something we all -- or at least the vast majority of us -- agree with. Her continued assertions of his innocence make her...wait for it...DELUSIONAL!!!
Posted 04/30/2009 at 08:51:28 PM