Cassandra Beauchesne, Elementary Teacher, Busted 4 Times for Beating Up Her Husband

•  I wuld've knocked the bitch into tomorrow!!

• Look Bell, I can understand that....I have had friends in abusive relationships too. On top of being in one myself about 12 years ago....I am not suggesting we be out and out cruel to the abused....they have had enough of that...But here is an example of some of the things that piss me off about domestic abuse...About 2 years ago we heard that a friend of ours was going back to her daughters father, who was extremely abusive for the 10 years they were married...they had seperated for a few months...and we all thought she had finally gotten away from him. Well sure enough......she took him back under the promises that he was gonna change, go to church, be a better husband blah blah blah....and then sure enough about 3 weeks after she took him back he had rearranged her face IN FRONT of her then 7 year old daughter.........and when the daughter tried to save her mommy??? Her own father smacked her across the room and broke the bone in her face below the eye socket...Her own father!!!!!!!!!!! Now.....our friend left him...and the state picked up the charges of hurting the child and the mother.....but don't you know that if the state HAD NOT picked it up, this crazy bitch was gonna TRY TO DROP THEM for the injuries of her and her child!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT?????????? When is enough enough???? Friends who try to help or intervene in these situations always turn out to be the enemy...Never the abuser... Now, I really do think we should use a form of even "tougher" love on people that keep allowing themselves to be abused in front of the children. Like I said it is one thing if you as an adult want to stay in such a relationship..But as I have tried all up and down this page to make clear is...PROTECT your children...Even if it from their own father or mother....

• I used to know this guy who was with this crazy chick... She stabbed him in the leg and then laughed about it. When there was no blood on the knife, she insisted he put the knife back in so it could get bloody, and idiot that he is, he actually did it. Another time she kept punching him in the face, he finally got tired of it and grabbed her arm, jerking  and twisting it it in the process and accidently causing a hairline fracture. Luckily her parents had seen the whole thing so he didn't get in trouble. That was one sick ass relationship, this one doesn't sound too different.

• I agree. Maybe she was finally fighting back.

• Hey Ill I am not condoning any form of being a constant or even a pathological victim all I am trying to state is that instead of being  judgmental we should be ethically bound to look at people with strong and informed empathy.  I am very very fortunate not to have been a victim of domestic violence and have been married for 31 years but having said that it has not been all chocolate and roses!  I have, however, had many friends and work colleges who have or are being abused domestically both physically and emotionally and although the rational side of my brain is screaming to get the hell out of there the emotional side understands the difficulty these people and I do say people as one of my friends who is in this situation is a male.  My point is that is is VERY easy to be on the outside looking in and seeing the situation holistically but living it is a totally different ball game.  As far as putting children in this situation it is NEVER EVER OK and as a society we need to be more proactive rather than reactive, once again never an easy thing to do.  I know all about having a stressful life with constant challenges as I have a disabled husband and daughter so I guess I am more attuned to being empathetic.   

• It came across clear to me Illy and it didn't seem cruel at all ...Just very passionate in your beliefs :)

• In retrospect Sen, it sounds like I am being cruel...and it isn't that I don't know there aren't mental issues that hold some of these men and women IN these abusive relationships...but when kids become involved, it is just as abusive to make them "survive" this hell one parent or the other has chosen for themselves....

• I just wonder why she all of the sudden, on a December day, she decided to get her abuse on. Or was this when he finally had enough & decided to do something about it? Another thing to think about...I was in an abusive relationship but my ex-husband would make it look like he was the victim & after awhile, the justice system realized he was using them to fuck me over. I'm just curious as to if it's as cut & dried as it seems...if it is, I hope she gets the same treatment as a male abuser would.

• WOW ...Illy......Your dead on about all that!........That last line was great!

• What kind of stubid fool of a man stays with this so called BITCH?  Too bad they did not lock her ass th first time. Fire her from her JOB. Both were really DUMB THE HUSBAND FOR STAYING WITH THE BITCH. The police for not putting her in jail.

• @_@ What a freak

• Hey Bell, how about you take your own advice! Considering I WAS in an abusive relationship, I think I can handle stating my opinion on the matter...Be sad if you want...cry a river...I for one, am tired of people making it OKAY to stay in these kind of relationships when children are involved....If you are being abused mentally and/or physically it does make you a victim......BUT at what time will people open their eyes to the fact THEY are being VOLUNTARY victims!!!!!?? People don't like hearing that. Because most of us know how hard it can be to leave an abusive relationship....and I do sympathize with the mental restraints some of these relationships can carry. BUT DAMN IT>>>I am sick of reading stories where a woman is abused, knows her hubby or man is psycho abusive....and then turns a blind eye when the abuse is turned ON their children, or in front of them! If you don't have kids and want to stay under an abusers thumb by choice...FINE! But if y ou have kids, as with anything in life you need to PROTECT them, and forget about the silly fears that bound you to such a relationship. Domestic abuse makes me sick.....and even more disgusting is draggin your children into hell because "it's to hard to leave"....It's BS. Empower them to leave...not pity and empower them to STAY!!!!!!

• I think it very unfair and extremely judgmental of  you to state that domestic violence victims make you mad - who are you to be so damn harsh!  Walk a mile in their shoes before you feel qualified to put an uninformed statement like that on for all to read.  You need your moral compass calibrated!  People with opinions like you make me sad not mad..

• Cool....:)

• Based on personal experience, I have to agree with that. Thank goodness I walked away...

• I can agree with that.

• I don't want him to hit her or anything ..It did happen quite a few times and she was really violent. He should have Just Left...

• Sounds like someone is missing a few screws from her erector set.

• Hmm. It seems to me that it takes a good sized set of balls to take all that shit, turn the check and do things by the book instead of swinging back even if it would be in defense. I admire a guy who, in a situation like this, shows restraint while still standing up for himself. Now, if he were constantly cowering in a corner afraid to move not knowing what will set her off next and continually forgiving her then I share your feelings.

• Freak!

• Ok ...Damn it!!! You are right about that too.....:(

• Kinda makes sense...Crazy in life,Crazy in bed.I can see it.....lol

• But you know, if dude had slapped or hit her back or even pushed her away and the cops were called, he'd be the one in deep shit. I think that's fucked up when a chick can get away with abuse like that or just gets a slap on the wrist, so I hope she gets something more than some classes and a fucking warning not to do it again. I think if you hit someone, anyone, I don't care if it's a dude or a chick or a kid...you deserve to get hit back...so I have no problem with a dude socking a chick in the mouth after she slaps the fucking shit out of him for no reason or tries to choke him...that doesn't mean I think it's fine to hit women just because you fucking feel like it...but if some cuntasaurus is hitting and trying to strangle a guy just cause she's a woman and thinks she can get away with that shit, she deserves a fucking fist to the face....don't put your hands on other people if you don't want their hands on you...it's that simple...glad this guy didn't lower himself to hitting her back though and that he called the cops on her...hopefully he gets far the fuck away from psycho here...

• My brother has this theory...God made the crazy chicks really good in bed, so they'd always have someone to take care of them (he's a bit of a misogynist). But from what I hear from most guys I know, that does seem to be the trend: the crazier they are, the better they are in bed.

• phsyco

• If a man loves a woman and she turns abusive, he can't just turn the love off like a switch.  Human heart doesn't work that way. Men who stay with abusive women aren't cowards, they're men convinced it's their fault they're being physically or verbally assaulted. TV and Hollywood script are full of girls and women slapping men, punching men, kicking men in the testicles, throwing drinks in men's faces. Always...always...in a script context that says it's the boy or man's own fault, something he said or did "wrong". Our boys are being raised on this idea.  They grow up and get married, tell themselves it's their own fault if the wife slaps or punches, shoots or stabs him. If he hits her back, society calls him scum. If he leaves her, society calls him a deserter. If he stays with her, society calls him an idiot. If he calls police on her, society calls him a coward. Can't turn left, right, go forward or backward.  Do people really wonder why men are walking around frustrated and pissed off these days? ...and why does this woman have to be named Cassandra.  I like the name Cassandra, rare name but the few Cassandras I've know have been awesome.  This one not so much.

• Haha!  I don't mean nice hands....just the mean ones.

• I dunno. I tend to feel the guys who beat on kids and rape women have the smaller ones but ya i get your point. 

• Ya ...But he should have just left......I can see your point so we will just say his balls are smaller then the average mans.....:)) 

• Well he's filed reports and gone to the press so his cajones are still in place. She's the one who needs a shot of estrogen or something. 

• Restraining order. Maybe even a D-I-V-O-R-C-E. And this woman works with small children? EEsh.

• She needs some meds.

• Hey traci, need a hand?? =)

• Guys who stay in this make me as mad as the women who stay in similar situations. Especially when there are children involved. And I can't imagine her really being a "sweet give an apple" kind of teacher either...if she is like this at home.

• LMAO ........I have that CD....That's the perfect song for this chick!

• Well you were right! It's true...I can see if it happened once.But this chick was seriously Violent towards him and he just sat their and took it.There is a time when you have to man up and walk away from that.Besides it's not like you were saying.He should have beaten her back so badly she ended up in the hospital Bitch need to be put in her place. Right? Now that would be wrong I could see ya being slated for something like that ..I'm sure I probably have it coming to the days still early...lol

• I said that exact thing about a diff story yesterday and got slated for it..hmm

• Reminds me of that song by Buckcherry... Hey, you're crazy bitch, but you fuck so good, I'm on top of it. When I dream of doin' you all night, scratches all down my back keep me right on.

• Haha!  Well said Senlaane!  My sentiments exactly!

• What the hell kind of man was she married to?Damn she couldn't have been that good in bed to put up with this shit for so long.Geeze Man Grow a pair will you?

• They definately need to divorce before somebody gets killed.  She needs to be fired and do some time for sure.  What a bitch!  Keep your damn hands to yourself.  Hopefully they don't have any kids to witness this bullshit.

• I give him props for not knocking the shit out of her but sometimes a bitch like this needs it!

• This out-of-control abuser needs to be fired, pronto. She should have been fired a long time ago. Mr. Beauchesne needs to hire the best divorce lawyer he can find.

• Anybody else think it was Casey Anthony in the pic? hmmm?

• If it would have been the other way around.....He would have never made it to the 2nd arrest....double standards...I am sick of them.

• Get her out of the school system...suspension is not good enough.  She is violent and a danger to the kids and other teachers.  It always surprises me the number of people who can't keep their fucking hands to themselves. 

• "Come here bitch and let me wrap my arm around your neck and choke the living dumbness out your head" women like this POS does not deserve to work smh. She looks crazy as hell.

• Wouldn't divorce make more sense in this situation?  Just give it up and call it a day, people.  You don't belong together. Split the proceeds and go to a neutral corner and move on with your lives. I also think Cassandra would do with counseling and not from the school's counselor either.

• What a nice lady.  I don't understand why they are picking on her.  Why wouldn't you want your kids around such a good natured sweet lady?  Fire her ass before she takes her little tantrums out on the children!

• Why is someone who obviously has such a problem with anger control, allowed to keep teaching children who are undoubtedly enfuriatingly disobedient at times??

• stupid twat... fire her ass, she's too stupid to be a teacher

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